tertiary · Self-Blame

Sorry

Part of the Shame & Guilt Wheel

What is Sorry?

Wanting to have acted differently. This is the beginning of accountability.

When you might feel sorry

Sorry is a specific form of guilt, which itself is a type of self-blame. You might experience this feeling in situations where self-blame is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define sorry.

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Related Emotions

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Harsh-Self-Judgement

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