tertiary · Shock

Denial

Part of the Grief & Loss Wheel

What is Denial?

A part of you refuses to accept what happened. This is not weakness — it's the mind buying time.

When you might feel denial

Denial is a specific form of disbelief, which itself is a type of shock. You might experience this feeling in situations where shock is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define denial.

Emotional Hierarchy

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Related Emotions

Frozen

Everything has stopped. You can't think, move, or respond. Your system is protec...

Detached

Watching yourself from a distance. Life feels unreal, like a film you're not qui...

Hollow

Feeling emptied out. The loss has left a void where something solid used to be....

Doesn't Feel Real

It doesn't feel real yet. You keep expecting the ordinary world to return....

Waiting

Some part of you is still waiting for the loss to be undone, corrected, or revea...

Flooded

Too much, all at once. Your system is at capacity and can't absorb more....

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